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Twins Karen and Kristy Ambrose, also known as The Ambrose Girls, share their reasons so many pretty girls are single.
There
are countless articles, theories, and ideas that all attempt to answer the
mystery of why in the world "hot" girls are also, (gasp), single
girls. Like most things in life, there are no clear answers for this enigma.
Although we cannot place any serious theories into this unsolvable question, we
do however happen to have in depth personal experience with this one. Not to
brag, but we have some amazing girlfriends! We are surrounded by girls who are
not only gorgeous but also smart, witty, sarcastic, real, and down to earth.
They have it all, and no we aren't biased when we say pretty - we mean like
really pretty; hell, one of our besties is a former Miss Tennessee!
These
girls thrive in their careers, are loyal friends, and have huge senses of self
worth. And yes, these girls find themselves constantly on the receiving end of
the world's most annoying question; "how are you single?" We've
noticed that out of all of our fabulously manicured and truly enjoyable
girlfriends, there are a disturbing amount that are completely single . . . as
in; no consistent text flirtations, no joe schmo to call on a lonely night, no
pending date invitations, no "drinks sent over" meet and greets . . .
Their love lives are filled with zilch, nothing!
But,
why why WHY are these awesome and hot girls still on the market with no signs
of being swooped up anytime soon? We can only speculate but our ideas are
these, and they all center around the who this "hot" girl is.
1. She's grown out of "dating for the sake of dating."
These
girls are not into wasting their time or energy on a guy they really can't see
themselves being with long term. Casual dates just seem like a waste of time.
It doesn't mean she isn't interested in dating, she's just not interested in
attending ONE more mediocre date. Mediocre dates happen solely for the sake of
going on a date. This is a concept that has grown tired on her. She would
rather have a good gym sesh, some pinot noir, a face mask, and bed by 9 p.m.
than participate in a forced date. She's become picky, but if someone
worthwhile came along, she would be on a date in a heartbeat!
2. She's not into
meaningless sex.
As much as we all try and
dance around this topic, our generation is known to have casual sex with
"no strings attached." She does not confuse "dating" with
"hooking up." A "hot but single" girl has been there and
done that with the A-holes who just want ass. She is not going to be down for
this guy. To her, nothing is worse than being reminded of the losers from her
past by a sub-par hookup and zero follow through on a guys part. Sex is better
with someone she has feelings for, and she's willing to wait for that.
3. She's not looking
to fill a void.
As young adults, we are
innately forced to focus on a few key areas of life. This list normally
includes: career, family, health, romantic relationships, and friends. What if
this "hot but single" girl is killing it in every area other than
dating? Is she really going to feel a huge glaring void in her life? The answer
is no. A woman, hot or not, who has a complete life isn't going to succumb to
the throes of dating desperation to find the one thing she's missing. She's too
pretty, busy and happy to force it with the next guy who comes along just to
place a checkmark next to her romantic life.
4. She seems to have
it all.
The following statement may
be controversial, but it's also true . . . guys are NOT idiots. When a guy
meets this "hot but single" that has her sh*t so together, he knows
she is wife material. He can't find a laundry list of reasons to give her the
fade away after two weeks. She has beauty, brains and a glowing personality to
boot. Dating what could be a future wife can scare the living crap out of a
guy. It forces the issue of whether he wants commitment anytime soon, or at all.
So, unfortunately for this hot single girl, most of the guys she's dating
aren't ready for this, so they feel forced to call it quits before it begins.
They see the situation for what it is and bail wishing they could cross her
path in fiveish years.
5. She knows exactly
what she wants.
This hottie hot hot
singleton has dated around enough to have learned from her past and identify
specifically what she wants in her long term bae. She is sick and tired of
making exceptions for losers that live with their moms, but are "really
driven." She is looking for someone as independent, successful, and as
happy as she is! Her list of non-negotiables is rock solid, and she knows
better than to waste her time on a dude who doesn't match what she wants. She refuses
to settle for just anyone.
Our best stab at this ever
pressing mystery of "how are hot but single girls, hot but single?"
lies in all of the aforementioned combined. A hot girl can be perfectly content
being single right now, and in fact, she chooses it! There is nothing wrong
with a girl who has her life by the reins and is holding out for a man that can
keep up with her. Consider this a mild PSA to halt the question, "how are
you single?" the next time it comes to mind. The girl who could receive this
question is aware of her single status, and she is doing just fine with it!
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